March 12, 2009

Do You Have Dreams?


{Sightseeing should start tomorrow. You can keep up with the interesting things in Egypt as I try to give daily updates on my twitter section here or on facebook. Should see the pyramids closely tommorrow, then go for a 3 days cruise on the Nile. Tomorrow, I might be interviewing an inspirational South African Lady I met here… just thinking out loud :) )

We all grew up as young children full of dreams. We wanted to become this, to have that, and to go everywhere. When we saw an aircraft on TV, we wanted one, when we saw a big house, we dreamt we would own it, we even fantasised about the definition of beauty that the media had sold to us. If every anything we were dreamers, our imaginations ran ahead of our realities, we wanted more from life than mere existence. We had big dreams, and somehow in our minds, we were unstoppable.  As a child, I can’t remember ever worrying about how I was going to ever study Aeronautics Engineering.

As we grow up however, our dreams grow with us, but somewhere along the line, many of us lose the youthfulness to dream. We are so caught up in waking up early, spending quality time in traffic, coming back late, that we have lost our dreams. We have become realists, we face the facts rather than the possibilities, we live the lives of drugged zombies, repeating the same routine day in day out, and hoping for the “one day”. If it is true, that repeating the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is insanity, then we might indeed need to submit ourselves to some counselling. Some of us however have dreams, we still nurse them, we still hold them dear and are working towards them.

The question for you today is “What is your dream?” What is the compelling reason that motivates you to action? I watched a video presentation yesterday that inspired me and there was something the speaker said that really really got my attention.  He said, and I phrase in my own words, “A business opportunity is like a Ferrari, it’s a lovely car. We might however spend undue time looking at it and touching it. If you don’t know where you are going however, any car is useless.”

Nothing happens unless first we dream – Carl Sandburg

Does it not seem interesting to you, that many of us have entered different CAReerS without setting our destination?  Many of us got into many even good pipe building systems without any dreams. I’m not asking about hazy thoughts of wanting a better life, I’m asking for concrete and specific desires that are tangible and documented. This may sound funny, but if you think about it,  you’ll possibly arrive at the same conclusion with me – If you don’t have a dream for anything, you will not excel at anything. It’s not the quality of the car that matters, or the potentials or capacity of the same. What matters is, do you know where you are going? Speed only makes sense when direction is clear. 

A man’s dreams are an index to his greatness.- Zadok Rabinowitz

Before you involve yourself in any business – franchising, network marketing, direct selling, first of all identify with your dream. Write it down, then break it down. What milestones do you want to achieve, what things do you want, and who do you want to become? If the dream is not compelling, then there is no motivation. The people that succeed the most in any business opportunity, are the ones with strong reasons and clearly expressed dreams. The reciepy for getting tired, frustrated or bored is not to have something to look forward to. 

Two people with equal talent but with different dreams will arive at different destinations. When you see a man or woman that has a compelling reason, the passion, the excitement and a positive mental attitude become addons. When you see another complaining and acting powerless to do anything, it’s easy to conclude that there is either no dream, or the one he or she has is sketchy at best. Dreams are basic, some call it goals others vision. Don’t board any vehicle, without clarifying where you are going! I can almost guarantee ultimate failure,  in whatever venture you go into without clarity about your dreams.  In the same breath, I can almost guarantee success however, if you have a dream even if you neither have talent nor gold. 

“Dreams are like stars…you may never touch them, but if you follow them they will lead you to your destiny.” – Unknown

“Your dream is something you want, that you are willing to pay any price to achieve it. It’s something that lingers in your mind, something that can compel you to action”. Most times it’s not as if we don’t habour these thoughts once in a while, we only sometimes stop believing. 

Do you have dreams? Do you want to see the world? Do you want to build you own house? Do you want to buy that car?Do you want to buy your own house? Do you want your kids in the best schools? Do you want to go on vacation thrice a year? Do you want to be a global player? Will you reach a million people? Will you win awards?  Do you want a golf course? Do you want to be Governor? Do you want an orphanage? Do you want an island? Do you have anything you are living for? What are your dreams?  The first thing we do during cashflow 101 is chose our dreams.  Take these thoughts, and document them. Keep a copy in your wallet, keep a copy in your room, keep it on your laptop. Give a copy to your mentor, send me one too if you think I can hold you accountable, make sure you see it daily! If your dream is not real to you, clear to you, and around you, it’s not likely going to happen.

Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.- Goethe

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62 thoughts on “Do You Have Dreams?

  1. Oga Dee. Pls i have to ask you this and everyone who want to assist me too. I am in America and i am going to finish my studies in another 5-6 yrs. I hope to stay a while before comming home because of a certain big dream i have. In the mean time, God has thought my fingers to war and my hand to fight. I love teaching and i think am very good at it. I want to do that which i use to do in Nigeria, teaching young people mathematics. Its a side dream, but America is not like Nigeria, you will have to have a Visa status that can allow you to do such thing. But this is eating me up daily as i see the opportunity in it to help people and also to make some good money. In your advise, what should i do?
    Pls send your ideas and advise to eliansy@yahoo.com God bless yu

  2. i believe one cannot even go through the process of true success without a dream…. something to look forward to… something that makes you want to take all the lessons… something that makes you want to persist when the “circumference around you” which in other words is circumstance is not all together very positive.

    really missed you. hope to see you tomorrow.

  3. It’s been a while, its like i went on holidays too, reading all this articles now make me realize how much missed deoluakinyemi.com…. great Job Man!

  4. I have a dream-to see a greater and more effective “Me” and also contribute my quota to seeing “The world most desirable country,Nigeria” come into reality.
    Help me God!
    That was highly challenging a piece, sir!

  5. a dream is a mental picture picture of a preferable future you can feature in. it becomes useless and unrealistic when you do not see yourself as a facilitator for the actualization of your dream.

  6. its wondreful to dream but where i have a problem with dreaming is when the dreamer doesnt have to plan on how to achieve it. this is one reason why many who used to be great dreamers yesterday are frustrated losers today. why? no passion to fuel their dreams and to keep it alive.

    dreaming is wonderful but i think the most important question is” how can you make the dream come to pass?”

  7. like i said even lazy people dream and have ideas but the question is living your dream.
    see, one beautiful thing about this life is that we all have equal opportunities but we do not have equal energies to live our dreams, and that is where we have to channel the totality of our thinking.
    another issue I’d like to stress here is about our leaders. the difference between an initiator and a spectator is that one lives on his dream thereby making dreams realities.
    Pastor Sam Adeyemi defines a dream as a mental picture of a preferable future. Nigeria as a nation cannot boast of a dream, even as common as it may sound. what is the Nigerian dream?
    I am trusting God for a day i would gather group of young and promising Nigerian youths to sit together and derive a dream for this country and we’ll make sure it works maybe october first this year will be the day. i am looking forward to seeing people who believe that yes we can project a future for Nigeria if our leaders can’t.
    where are we heading to great Nigeria???
    lets do it together.

  8. T.E. Lawrence says: All men dream but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes to make it possible.
    which category do i belong?
    the answer to this question depicts where you are headed for

  9. Good job. More power to your elbow for the tenderful write up. You just stimulated me to keep my dreams alive, awake and hot. Thanks broda

  10. dreams are mental pictures we carry about. suddenly they become part and parcel of us and we start living our dreams. a man’s dream will take him to his destined nation.

  11. if i have a dream but i do not do effort how can its possibe.
    second i have dream but dreams change after some time

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